May 2026

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Today, My Heart Bleeds: A Letter to the Nigerian Child on Children’s Day 2026

Today, Nigeria marks Children’s Day. Across the country, schools that are still open will sing, children will be dressed in their finest, and speeches will be made about “the leaders of tomorrow. ” And somewhere — in Oriire, in Maga, in Papiri, in places we may never name — there are children who will not

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This Africa Day, Don’t Drop Your Culture at the Airport

By Latifah Ajetunmobi This Monday, 25 May 2026, the world marks Africa Day—63 years since our founding fathers signed the Organisation of African Unity into existence in Addis Ababa in 1963. Sixty-three years of unity, integration, and development. Sixty-three years of a continent still rising, still healing, still teaching the world what resilience looks like.

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International Day of the Boy Child: Why Our Sons Are Disconnecting (And How to Bring Them Back)

Today, the world marks the International Day of the Boy Child. We celebrate boys. We also confront the quiet crisis they face. Our sons are scrolling more. Talking less. Struggling silently. As a parent-teen coach and former mental health nurse, I see it every week. This day matters. Here’s why — and what you can

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I Was Interviewed on Italian TV — Here Is What I Said About African Families and the Next Generation

Something extraordinary happened recently. I sat down with Ginevra Grasso of Conoscere TV. She is the presenter of an internationally broadcast Italian television channel. Together, we talked about my book, Beyond the Goat Pen: An African Woman’s Journey. The interview is now live on YouTube. So today, I want to share what we discussed. Because

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Breaking Generational Cycles: Creating the Family Legacy You Want Your Grandchildren to Inherit

We’ve spent eleven weeks talking about what’s broken. We discussed toxic relatives who harm children. We explored cultural practices that enable abuse. We examined family dynamics that exploit the vulnerable. This final week is about what you’re building instead. The most powerful response to generational dysfunction isn’t just stopping the harm. It’s creating something better.

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